Tom Daley is dating a guy. But should we even care?

That’s right world – I’m back on wordpress. It’s been nearly six long months but I’m here once more, and what better thing to write about than the recent news that Tom Daley, Olympic diver for Great Britain and heartthrob for teen girls all over the world, has revealed that he’s now in a relationship with another guy.

In case you’ve been living under a rock and missed this (for some reason) headlining news, he released a video in which he spoke about the situation, the loss of his dad, and Rio 2016. Have a watch at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OJwJnoB9EKw if you feel like you’re missing out.

It’s safe to say that people have held varying views about Daley’s recent admission. Just looking down the #TomDaley tag on twitter, it’s not particularly difficult to come across homophobic tweets even from people who before considered themselves fans of his; @eden_edge explained “tom daley is a queer, now get the fag off my trends list”, whilst @alltomyself mentioned “Tom Daley is gay I am now ashamed of my country ew we can’t have a bloody fag representing us”. Of course, right at the other end of the spectrum famous faces and normal citizens alike have been wishing Tom nothing but the best; @MattyFreeman told the twittersphere that he was “proud of Tom Daley” going to to explain “I don’t see the big fuss though and the hate, he is bi, accept it” and legend @StephenFry tweeting “I opened the second door on my advent calendar and Tom Daley came out. Seriously @TomDaley1994 congratulations. So happy for you.”

Now, this is my blog, and by reading it you’re obliged to accept that at some point in every entry my opinion is going to be made known, and it’s not going to be subtle. This is that part. Yes, okay… maybe we could have called it before, but I have nothing but massive respect for Tom for confirming people’s suspicions in such a bold way. Ignoring the fact that newspapers and magazines would probably have paid him a vast, vast amount of money to have the exclusive interview, he videod himself and stuck it on youtube. No editing, no script, no PR agent telling him which angle he needs to approach it from. It was all him. And it would have taken guts. 

At the end of the day, he is a person. And he is dating another person. And that makes him happy. It doesn’t matter whether that person is male or female, he’s happy and at the end of the day, that’s all we should ever want anybody to be. I’ve never been the biggest fan of his, but my respect for him is through the roof. People who know me will know that I’m an avid supporter of gay rights and marriage, despite not being gay myself. At the end of the day, this shouldn’t be news. It shouldn’t be something anybody – famous or not – has to make a video about, or try and justify. As he says in his video, he doesn’t think it should be a big deal. And neither do I. He’s happy and he’s in a relationship. Good for him, that should be that.

On that basis, there isn’t really a lot more to say about the issue apart from congratulating him on lifting what I’m sure was quite a heavy weight from his shoulders.

Good for you, Tom. Good for you..

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Sorry, I’m busy opening up the Grammys.

Taylor Swift’s performance opening the Grammy awards last night has certainly got people talking – and not for the right reasons. Ignoring the impressive showmanship and circus-themed performance, the focus was held on one single line in the song, spoken in a British accent (or at least a rather bad attempt at one), ‘I still love you‘.

The song – We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together – is thought to have been written about John Mayer, though last night’s performance links it her much more recent relationship with One Direction singer Harry Styles. With One Direction fans slating the singer since it was first revealed that the two were together, her performance was being criticised on the likes of twitter and tumblr by this fanbase anyway. Using a British accent for the line – the surrounding section being; “Uggg… so he calls me up and he’s like, ‘I still love you‘, and I’m like… I just… I mean this is exhausting, you know, like, we are never getting back together. Like ever.” – seemed to push Harry’s fans over the edge, as she clearly mocked her ex live in-front of millions of people all over the world.

I’m a fan of Taylor’s, even if she seems a bit irresponsible with regards to how quickly she seems to grow attached to someone. I remember reading an article where she’d started to plan her wedding to Harry whilst they were together – though this was from Perez Hilton and I take what he writes about as seriously as I’d take instructions from Hitler about how to be more understanding of different ethnicities. Is that too far? Probably. But the point stands. After heavy criticism of the number of relationships she has from magazines, websites and anybody else who likes to make their opinion known, I think it’s only fair that Taylor gets her point across while she can, even if it ends up being on national television. It was a line in a song, spoken in a bad British accent. It may make Harry feel a little humiliated, but I’m sure he – like any other of her ex’s – can make himself feel better by wiping his tears away with £50 notes and looking at his own impressive list of musical achievements.

Taylor has admitted on countless occasions that if you piss her off (I’m paraphrasing, of course) she’ll put you into a song – a fact people saw as light humour at the beginning of her career, though now seen as more of a threat to any future boyfriends of the star who might forget how she likes her coffee and end up in a number one song as a result – and what she did during her performance last night is really no different. Sure, it’s going to take Styles’ army of dedicated followers a while to get over what they probably consider to be the most controversial and upsetting incident ever in the history of music (like, ever), but for the rest of us, it’s no big deal and probably something that’s going to be forgotten in a week.

Which is unfortunate, because I thought it was freakin’ hilarious.
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If you want to watch Taylor’s Grammy performance of We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together, click {here} to watch the video on YouTube!